Traditionally, weddings are one of the best days of a couple’s lives. They are filled with love, celebration, family, and friends. Most brides recall being on “cloud nine” during the ceremony and festivities and are excited to begin their new life with their groom. But no matter how amazing their wedding day was, there are a few things brides wish they would’ve known before their day arrived and below are a few of their tips.
Choosing bridesmaids is very exciting and ideally, most women want to include their closest and dearest friends. Your bridesmaids are there to support you, calm you during stressful times and make sure your transition into marriage is as smooth as possible.
You do not want to pick friends that are non-supportive, selfish or self-centered no matter how long you have been friends. The people that surround you during this time commit to supporting you and your future husband through the ups and downs of marriage. This is why choosing reliable, healthy and responsible bridesmaids are the best option.
This sounds silly but because of the excitement of the day and how busy it gets, most brides forget to eat food and drink enough water and they, in turn, feel terrible. Assigning someone to make sure you eat is the best way to avoid headaches, dehydration, and food-related fatigue on your special day.
Many photographers are
very skilled and can capture intimate moments without direction. But if there are special shots you want them to catch of family members, friends or portions of the ceremony and reception, make sure you let your photographer know in advance. Giving them a shot list is a great way to direct them as well.
No one wants to end up with wardrobe malfunctions like Janet Jackson at the Superbowl so be sure to move around, mimic dance moves and practice sitting in your dress during your final dress fittings. This will prevent tearing and uncomfortable moments during your wedding reception due to your dress being too tight.
Sure, it sounds fun to party all night to commemorate your last night as a single woman. Just know that a lack of rest has consequences. You don’t want to be caught yawning during your ceremony or sneaking away to get a quick nap in because you were out all night. You want to be awake and present during this special day to savor every moment.
Your wedding day is the start of a brand new life. It can be stressful for some, but by staying proactive, taking these tips and more you will be sure to have an amazing day that both you and your future groom will remember for the rest of your lives.
Lisa Hammond is a 24-year old faith and lifestyle blogger from Cleveland, OH. With a Bachelor’s degree in Journalism from Cleveland State University, Lisa’s goal is to become a journalist, speaker, and author motivating women across the world.
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